#4 Rings

A random thought has passed from my mind. I just threw a simple question in one of my circle group; will you wear your wedding ring after you are married? So here are the captured answers.



Captured chat. Skip the second line that mentioned “..abang elsa”. She’s not my girl :p


All the answers came from the girls. As you can see on the last answer, one of them argued that not only wife has to wear the ring but also her husband does. I was surprised with her answer as she said that she get her (future) husband worn their wedding rings. What an awful world (“,)

It is an usual thing that married women wear the wedding ring. Someone said to me that it is a symbol of fidelity; a gent warning to express “Hey, I am taken!” I am quite sure that the ring will make the married woman save for the man temptations. Otherwise I met with the others married mom (yes, they have a child!) not wearing her rings. I think perhaps people will not tease her, later I will ask them why they don’t put their rings on :D

What about the married men? Well, fifty-fifty. In my big family, it is just one of my uncle use it. My grandpa don’t wear it. My father don’t either.  What about me? I tend to not wearing it as I am still confused in which hand I have to put it haha. I am a right-handed and feel uncomfortable, so it is not an best option so far. In left hand? Hmm, it is also not a best option because I always use my left to, sorry, cawik! (I hardly find that word in English).

But let’s see whether I wear it or not later, it also depends on how I make my (future) wife sure that I am, and will be, devoted to her ever after. #ciyee

#2 Negaraku Negaramu



Gw waktu pemilihan calon anggota legislatif memutuskan untuk masuk ke dalam 24,89 persen ini. Namun, gw berubah pikiran dengan mendaftarkan pindah TPS dan menggunakan suara gw *semoga dapet TPS yang deket aja*

Well, gw sudah punya pilihan jodoh capres yang akan gw coblos tanggal 9 Juli nanti. Kalah atau menang yang penting gw punya alasan nanti sewaktu presiden baru terpilih walaupun beliau bukan calon yang gw pilih..

Susahnya hidup di negara demokrasi (yang katanya) ketiga terbesar di dunia.  Mau pemilihan presiden ributnya ga ketulungan. Pemilu sekarang bertepatan dengan  bulan puasa, kita lihat apakah pendukung capres-capres yang militan itu tetap setia pada militansinya atau akan mengurangi tensi mereka karena khusyu’ beribadah.

Jikalau Bapak Soeharto melihat dinamika negara ini akan dibawa kemana, pastilah ilustrasi di atas bisa menggambarkan realita yang ada.


Depok, 2 Ramadhan 1435 H.

It is about time…

One night, I read someone wrote a status, appeared in my Facebook timeline.  It was obviously addressed to me..

I am really sorry. Ain’t able to deal with anything you left behind in the past. It is hard for you, I know, but please let you finish the unfinished, it might be better.

Everything passes, everything wears out, and everything breaks.


au vous-chère: oublie ton passé qu’il soit simple pu composé parce qu’il est trop présent, qu’il est vous détruit.